It’s disheartening but true society often measures a person’s worth by the size of their wallet rather than the strength of their character. I know this topic may spark mixed opinions, but it’s something I’ve witnessed and felt deeply, and I want to share my thoughts on it.
We all agree that money is important. It provides comfort, stability, and opportunities. But somewhere along the way, we started equating financial success with personal value. And that’s where the real problem begins.
I’ve seen people treated like they barely mattered when they were struggling financially ignored at gatherings, excluded from conversations and treated as though their opinions held no weight. Yet, the moment they “made it” secured a good job, bought a nice car, or started earning well everything changed. Suddenly, they were celebrated, respected, and invited to every event. The same people who once overlooked them now couldn’t stop praising them.
What’s ironic is that the person remained the same, genuine, kind, and humble both before and after their financial transformation. The only thing that changed was the number in their bank account. So why did people’s behavior change so drastically?
It’s a sad reflection of how society has become. Many people don’t see the human behind the circumstances. Instead, they chase associations that can benefit them a mentality driven by superficial admiration for success and fear of being left behind.
But what about loyalty? What about standing by someone during their rough days, not because of what they have, but because of who they are? Respect should never be reserved only for the successful; it should be earned through kindness, integrity, and resilience.
True relationships whether friendships, family bonds, or love should never depend on financial status. Supporting someone when they have nothing is what makes your presence in their life meaningful when they finally have everything.
Let’s strive to be the kind of people who see beyond money who value heart over wealth, and presence over possessions. Because in the end, it’s not the money that defines a person’s worth it’s their character.
